Ambivert.

Introverts: someone who avoids large groups of people, feeling more energized by time alone.

Extrovert: someone who finds energy in interactions with others.

Ambivert: someone who exhibits qualities of both introversion and extroversion"

This past couple of weeks I have been extremely social.

Which for people that "know" me, this seems like nothing out of the ordinary.

My personality is inviting, bright, and outgoing.

So, one would assume that I like going out with friends and having a good time all the time.

LOL, no.

Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy spending time with my friends dearly, but no more than I enjoy my alone time watching Bluebloods with my furry children.

On several occasions I have spent my Friday night curled up with a book, ignoring the 10 text from my friend that I was suppose to be going out with.

It's not that I don't want to spend time with her,

I just don't want to put my effort into getting ready to just go and wish I was back in my bed.

But, then there are times I enjoy myself so much when I go out that I dance the night away.

That night- I smile, laugh uncontrollably, fix my lipstick one to many times.

That next morning- I drink my coffee, lay in my robe in bed, catch up on reading, and embrace my bedhead and naked face.

Sometimes I go days without talking to anyone but my fiance.

I just don't feel the need to reach out to people weekly.

I am content on my own.

But, then there are times when reaching out to a friend makes a whole worlds difference in my mood.

Sometimes all I need is a coffee date with myself.

Other times I need a girls night out.

I'm a social butterfly.

I'm a hermit.

And that's okay.

xoxo